There was a time of reflection when I began following modesty again. I went through a time of insecurity. I feel a bit more secure in my modesty now. It's not a huge deal in the grand scheme of things, but I do think that people who worship the One Creator should be different. We shouldn't blend in. We shouldn't laugh at crude jokes. We shouldn't find the worldly things interesting. We shouldn't spend our time in vain pursuits. It is not easy to stand out. It's not comfortable. But it's right.
I don't follow popular beliefs, but I follow the One True God. The only. There is no on but Him. What He tells us to do as a loving Father is not hard nor is it far away.